Stressed

I am so stressed out right now because of our mortgage company. I am trying to decide what is best for our family.My husband doesn't make as much as he use too. We are struggling and the mortgage company is trying to mess with us. I am trying to figure out if we should short sale, forclose, or get lawyers and fight. I don't trust the lawyers we have right now. So Im thinking about asking my buddy Russell's Lawyer to look at my mortgage paperwork to see if I have a case. I am thinking about asking my friend and realitor Jeannie if I should Quick Sale and if I do quick sale do I move in with my mother in law to stay close to my job (my very good job with good caring people) or move up to my dad ( so Clay would have a good job with very caring people and me with my dads side of the family)???? So many options. We have two small children and we need to keep a roof over their heads. We have two no-working classic cars that have a history for both of us. We have two dogs (although one seems to be very sick). ugh to much to think about....